If I were a female sports reporter covering an NFL team, I would hope that I would be given the same amount of respect as the male sports reporters in the room. I would hope that if I were to ask any NFL player a legitimate question, they would not respond with a laugh and a sexist remark.
At the very least, I would hope that my childhood heroes, the 2006 and 2007 Florida Gators men's basketball team, would’ve shown me the respect that I deserve if I had been a reporter in one of their post-game press conferences.
In light of Carolina Panthers quarterback Cam Newton’s recent comments to Charlotte Observer reporter Jourdan Rodrigue, I am disappointed as a female sports journalist. I’m disappointed in Cam — a father of two daughters and a quarterback with a powerful platform on and off of the field — as well as those who completely missed the sexism in his comment. I have scrolled through social media and read comments where people did not understand what was wrong with what Newton said.
Because it was, after all, funny.
Isn't it amusing to watch a female sports reporter actually know what she is talking about in reference to her own job?
Even if Newton was genuinely impressed with the content of Rodrigue’s question, it still would make no sense as to why he would feel the need to take the time to express it. In any context, it would not be a compliment to Rodrigue that Cam was impressed that a female sports reporter was good at doing what she was hired to do.
In fact, that’s the problem.
While I am still disappointed that the issue transpired, the backlash that Cam has received in response to his sexist comment is still extremely important to consider. It goes to show that what he said — no matter the way in which he meant it — is not acceptable.
Following the criticism, Cam posted an apology video on his Twitter account on Thursday night.
In the video, Cam admitted that he was in the wrong. He mentioned his two daughters and how he wants them to believe “that they can do and be anything that they want to be.”
I respect Cam for issuing a sincere video apology instead of a scripted statement. I respect Cam for talking about his role as a father to two daughters and for addressing all of the “supermoms” out there. And I respect Cam for recognizing his mistakes and for telling others to “be better” than him because that is exactly what we all need to do — we need to be, and do, better.
We all do. After Newton's comments, a few blatantly racist tweets from Rodrigue's account surfaced into the conversation. Her tweets show that we still have a lot of work to do together to create a country where everyone feels accepted for who they are.
Rodrigue should receive just as much criticism as Newton has because one issue cannot be made more important over the other. They both go hand-in-hand at wrongfully rejecting people for who they are on the outside and ignoring what it is that they stand for on the inside.
Simply put: we need to stop judging a person's perceived expertise in a field because of the color of his or her skin and/or gender.
Whenever I ask a male athlete a question, I want him to think about the content of my question — not about the gender of the person asking him the question. I think back to 10-year-old me glued in front of the television watching basketball games and living the dream by getting to shoot hoops with a national champion.
I don’t want her to feel marginalized because of her gender in the sports realm. Instead, I want her to feel empowered.
And hopefully, we won’t have to flash too far in the future to see that reality.