URL: http://www.dailytarheel.com/index.php/article/2010/11/hockey_teams_cube_sparks_discussion_about_rape_culture
Current Date: Thu, 24 May 2012 02:28:32 -0400
It was hard not to stare: The woman’s breasts were so large she made Barbie look downright small-busted.
The men on the ice hockey team who painted her on the side of a cube in the Pit knew she’d draw attention.
That was sort of the point, they say. Few know about their team, and fewer still know of the tournament that honors their late coach.
In retrospect, they realize the painted woman, and the invitation below her (“Come watch us score”) was bound to attract all the wrong kinds of attention.
“We figured we’d get an interesting reaction,” said senior John Thompson, one of the team’s vice presidents. “But we definitely weren’t trying to offend anyone.”
“Disgusted” was how senior Robyn Levine described feeling after walking home and seeing the cube Wednesday night.
For Levine, the ice hockey team’s cube represented “part of a larger problem” on college campuses where women’s bodies are objectified and such behavior is tolerated.
“It wasn’t particularly surprising,” she said. “It was just a really obvious manifestation.”
Later that night, Levine and members of Feminist Students United talked about how to respond. Their goal was to point out why the cube had offended them, and why they saw it as part of a larger problem.
“Just saying ‘that’s sexist’ with no other context wouldn’t have been the most constructive,” Levine said.
Thursday, the group took to the cubes, painting the adjoining side. With giant orange arrows, they directed attention to “sexism around the corner” and declared that “this is what rape culture looks like.”
Kyle Salvadore learned from a friend what the feminist group was painting. Salvadore, a junior and an ice hockey team vice president, rushed to the Pit to see it for himself.
Within minutes, he painted over the busty woman and sent an e-mail apologizing to leaders of Feminist Students United.
“We just want to make sure that we apologized and corrected the wrong,” Salvadore said. “We also wanted to make clear that our intentions were not to support rape culture. In no way do we support or condone that at all.”
Since Thursday, the two groups’ leaders have been in talks with one another. Ice hockey team members plan to attend a Feminist Students United meeting and are looking into One Act, a one-hour class on preventing interpersonal violence.
The ice hockey team realizes now how offensive the cube was, Salvadore said.
“We really did not know what rape culture exactly was before,” he said.
Incidents like this happen all the time, but talking about it publicly helps prevent it in the future, Levine said.
“It did start a larger conversation.”
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Do you think fracking can be done safely?
By all means do not dare to do anything that everyone doesn’t agree with.
This story is fantastic. The hockey team was unaware of their privilege and did something without thinking. The FSU pointed it out and explained it for them. I am so happy that the team realized their mistake once it had been pointed out and explained to them. It gives me hope that people really can learn from their mistakes when they unintentionally hurt someone.
Happy
If people don’t agree with it…THERE’S A REASON.
This makes me so, so happy. There are so many stories about people being called out on something sexist, racist, transphobic, etc. and denying it like their life depends on it. It’s refreshing and heartening to see the team taking responsibility for the unintentional damage and making an effort to learn from their mistake.
Things really are getting better. Slowly but surely, they are.
Happy: there’s a big difference between “doesn’t agree with” and “feels victimized by.” You wouldn’t tell someone they could continue to hit people at random because those who don’t agree with hitting shouldn’t get to dictate others’ actions.
This is the proper response when a mistake is pointed out. Go Tar Heel’s Hockey Team!
erin, there’s also a big difference between “feels victimized by” and “actually is victimized by” . . feminists can deny it all they want, but there is a very real difference between offensive statements and physical violence
W: Of course there is a difference, but, for example, if we tell the people around us everyday, through speaking only, that it is okay to degrade, demoralize and harm another group, it is likely that in very little time actions that do the same will no longer be condoned.
This makes me smile. I’m glad that these guys were “man enough” to be able to learn from this instead of circling the wagons and turning the discussion back against the people who pointed out the misogyny and sexism. You guys are awesome.
If Project Dinah painted a nude woman on a cube, we would all be applauding them for fearlessly and publically embracing their sexuality.
I think Ben takes the point, in spite of my agreement with Emily and bananacat.
Yeah, go hockey team. You guys wanted publicity and notice. The shrill feminists did too. With your depiction of buge hoobies and the word “rape” displayed in garish colors, you got that and kudos.
Big boob drawing = rape culture? Jesus H. Christ. Honestly? Why not just say that the drawing was offensive to women without engaging in hyperbole that ultimately waters down the argument?
I never thought I’d agree with a guy using the screen name “Joe Mama”, but alas…
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