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Doctors Warn Students About Less Talk, More Action

But when it comes to actually discussing the nitty gritty act associated with reproduction, many students at UNC clam up or giggle like kindergartners.

In fact, it seems the only people willing to have a mature conversation about the touchy subject -- sex -- are members of Chapel Hill's adult community.

Dr. Peter Battis, a psychologist at a local practice, said college students are often not prepared for the emotional ramifications of sexual activity.

"People get the idea that it is okay to experiment (sexually)," he said.

"But very few members of the species can do that without any emotional attachment."

But Battis said being unprepared for possible emotional upheaval does not prevent students from having sex anyway.

He pointed to the number of hookups that take place while participants are intoxicated as an indicator that students need to consume alcohol or other substances to be comfortable with sex.

"(Students think), let me obliterate my brain and it will be easier to take this next step," Battis said.

He said alcohol consumption makes it easier for people to "fall into bed" but that they have to face the consequences at some point.

Battis emphasized that students need to take account of their emotional state and that of their potential partner before they engage in intercourse.

He said it is important that both people be on the same page about sex.

"Otherwise, it's likely to be a bumpy ride," Battis said.

He pointed out that people are often more impulsive about relationships than with business transactions.

Battis said sex is like a contract of sorts and that people need to make sure they know the "goods" they are getting before engaging in sexual activity.

"Once you're sexually involved with somebody, it's hard to step back and get to know the person," he said.

But the few students who were willing to discuss the subject -- anonymously of course -- said getting to know the person is not really a concern at UNC.

"Most people aren't involved in relationships," said one student.

"They're just messing around."

Some students blamed age or downright capriciousness for students' lack of commitment.

Despite some students' skepticism, hand-holding couples can be found littering the Pit and the quad.

And whether they are simply on a casual stroll or are scampering off to a private rendezvous, experts say communication will be key to ensuring those couples have a happily-ever-after.

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