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Q&A with stress management specialist William Frey

William A. Frey currently works at UNC as an organization and professional development specialist and has been trained in a variety of stress management models.

His new book, “Ease into Freedom: Keys for Reducing Stress and Unlocking Your Potential,” includes 53 easy-to-do tips for handling stress mindfully and skillfully. He will be reading from his book at Bull’s Head Bookshop today. Staff writer Krupa Kaneria spoke to Frey about his stress tips, his time at UNC and his inspirations.

The Daily Tar Heel: How do you manage stress?

William A. Frey: I manage my stress by managing my time and my priorities, getting enough exercise and sleep, eating well and having good people around me. I do a daily sitting practice, which is different from meditation. A lot of time people think meditation means you have to empty your mind, but I just sit and I focus on my breath as a way of focusing my mind in a more mindful approach.

DTH: Why is it important to manage it?

WF: My stress management approach is from the employee’s perspective. Managing stress can lead to engagement in the workplace, satisfaction in the workplace and knowing what your biases and intentions are. Stress management lets you have a choice in what you do, as opposed to being on automatic pilot, and that choice, to me, is very important.

DTH: You have studied stress management since the 1970s. What got you started in that field of study? Why did you become interested in stress management?

WF: I felt very comfortable with the topic of stress management. I felt like it called me, and I picked up the call. I felt like I was talking to an old buddy. I was just feeling very comfortable with it and became very curious between the link of what we actually do and the science behind it.

DTH: What inspired you to write your book?

WF: The people who took the mindfulness stress reduction program that I organized actually inspired me to write this book. At the end of the program, they asked, “What next? What will inspire me to keep practicing?” It was in 2002 when I started sending them paragraphs called “Stress Tips.” After several years, they asked, “Are you going to collect all of this into a book?” So I did.

DTH: How long did it take you to finish writing your book?

WF: I took the first 53 stress tips and pulled them into a book. The actual writing of the book took about six months.

DTH: If there was just one thing you would want your readers to take away from your book, what would it be and why?

WF: That they have the capacity for choice at all times, but it takes practice to exercise that choice — that freedom of ease.

DTH: What has your time at UNC been like?

WF: This is my dream job — I get to help people develop professionally on the job and create a happier workforce and more productive workforce.

DTH: What do you think is the best way college students can manage their stress levels?

WF: There is a very practical thing to do: Learn how to follow your breath. Just feel the breath in your body, and that will help calm your system. From a more philosophical point of view, you should look at the bigger picture: that the stress you’re going through now is not permanent. All things are impermanent. Whatever you’re going though now will be over at some point, and you can look back on it and laugh.

@krupakaneria

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