Don't discriminate: Boy Scouts shouldn’t be allowed at soon-to-be merged YMCAs

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Updated: 01/24/12 11:50pm
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A s they plan to consolidate their organizations, the boards of directors of two local YMCAs must remember that inclusivity is the name of the game in any successful merger.

The YMCA of the Triangle must reconcile its backwards policies with the more progressive ones already in place at the Chapel Hill-Carrboro branch.

But both branches must take care not to alienate any of their patrons as they navigate this transition.

So far, there seems to be one drawback to adopting the Chapel Hill-Carrboro branch’s policies: the new YMCA could not allow a Boy Scouts of America troop to use its facilities.

Before every meeting, members of the Boy Scouts take an oath to remain, among other things, “morally straight.”

Because the Boy Scouts do not allow openly gay adults to lead troops, the Chapel Hill-Carrboro branch’s bylaws would necessitate that the new facility sever any connection to the Boy Scouts.
The Boy Scouts policy would be in direct conflict with the discrimination policies employed by the Chapel Hill-Carrboro YMCA, which calls for equal opportunity for employment regardless of sexual orientation.

Plenty of Boy Scout troops are based out of churches, and it seems reasonable to suggest that a potentially displaced troop find a new place to meet.

When the Chapel Hill-Carrboro YMCA split from its resident Boy Scout troop, the troop was able to find a new home at American Legion Post 6 in Chapel Hill.

Boy Scouts of America provides great opportunities for children in our community: learning, exploring the outdoors and interacting with other kids, to name a few. But it simply isn’t worth infringing on the gay community’s rights to preserve the leisure activities of another group. It’s a shame children are the ones who lose out here, but the YMCA should hold firm to its non-discrimination policy.

A petition opposing the merger is already circulating online. If it were to leave the sexual orientation clause out of its anti-discrimination policy, the new facility would alienate the gay communities of Chapel Hill, Carrboro and Durham.

The progressive policies already in place are no accident; they reflect values that are central to the identities of Chapel Hill and Carrboro.

Those opposed to the merger must bear in mind how beneficial it would be to the residents of Orange and Chatham counties.

The two communities would be able to pool resources and consolidate programs. It is clearly the most fiscally responsible course of action.

A single, central facility would provide the most effective service for the most members. And it would be able to do this at a lesser cost than the current set-up allows.

Though a formal merger is still a long way away, the branches’ boards of directors must start working now to ensure an acceptable compromise is reached.

If the merger is approved with the integration of Chapel Hill-Carrboro’s sexual orientation clause, the YMCA owes it to the troops to help them relocate to another facility. This isn’t asking much, but it could go a long way toward healing any potential wounds.

The two boards must distinguish between the damage that would be done to the complaining parties. As the YMCA makes changes in the name of collaboration and coordination, it must be sure to avoid alienation.

Published January 24, 2012 in Opinion

15 comments

breal
January 25, 2012 at 1:08 AM
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Would those policies require that the YMCA sever ties with the Boy Scouts? Forgive me for not realizing that Boy Scouts are now employees of the YMCA. You talk about needing to avoid alienation, and then in the same piece advocate severing ties with the Boy Scouts of America? Great logical progression there.


Brian
January 25, 2012 at 1:32 AM
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Respectfully, I would submit that the editorial board do its homework before disgorging an opinion. “Morally straight” has been part of the Scout Oath since 1910 and has nothing to go with sexual orientation. This piece illustrates how those who would preach tolerance have none if you disagree with their point of view.


CHRIS
January 25, 2012 at 8:50 AM
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Give me a break!! You really think a person that utilizes a facility is considered an employee?
The fact you penned it under “EDITORIAL BOARD” and not a name tells us ALL that you do not agree with what is in the article. You are trying to make the Scouts look bad, and all you are doing is displaying your bias, hate, and negativity. If we continue your line of thinking, then anyone not is a relationship with someone of the same gender should not be permitted to use the YMCA.
My opinion, and I am a Scout Leader, is who cares what you think. Let the Scouts have their meeting place. It only means that your group cannot join the Scouts; and seriously, do you really think they would want to? Moving to the next step, your next plan in progression will be to remove the membership of those who are also in Scouts.

Please do us all one favor, allow your hear to clear before submitting the next article.


David
January 25, 2012 at 9:01 AM
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Two things:
1) The BSA does not allow any non-heterosexuals to be members — youth or adults. While the court cases involved gay adults, there are many news reports of gay youth being expelled from the BSA for being gay.
2) According to the BSA’s charter policy, when an organization charters a BSA unit, then that unit is “owned” by the organization and fully embraces ALL of the BSA’s policies — including discrimination on the basis of religious belief and sexual orientation. From the BSA’s POV, the adult leaders would be “employees” of the YMCA, albeit unpaid employees.


Otelia
January 25, 2012 at 9:19 AM
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The real sub text to this story is that the Boy Scouts of America has been hijacked by the Mormon church which automatically enrolls it’s youth in the organization rather than having their own LDS group. Because of this policy the Mormon church has by default become the largest supporter of the BSA and therefore has imposed its own narrow views onto the organization. Thus ‘morally straight” has taken on a new and unintended meaning and allowed the BSA
to become a vehicle for national discrimination.

Any discussion of BSA discrimination should point out this unhealthy and un-holy relationship between the non-profit,non-sectarian Boy Scouts and the Latter Day Saints of which this unfolding local tragic story is the result.
Souting is doomed until the Mormons get the hell out.
The DTH should do its readers a favor by going to the heart of this local discrimination quandry by doing an article on the source of Scouting’s recently revised stance on “morally straight”


Conservative self-victimization
January 25, 2012 at 9:49 AM
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TSIA


Claude Balls
January 25, 2012 at 12:09 PM
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BSA – Straight; brave, kind, thrifty, clean and reverend. Which is more than I can say about this ridiculous editorial.

If the YMCA doesn’t allow the BSA in, then I quit, and so will others. Nor, do I believe homosexuality should be promoted in any form whatsoever.


UNC Alum
January 25, 2012 at 12:28 PM
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Otelia, where is your evidence that the Boy Scouts have been “hijacked” by the Mormon church? That statement/premise is completely without merit. I worked as a Boy Scout leader at three different levels of scouting in one of the nation’s largest councils. Mormon churches do act as the chartering organization of some troops, but there are by far more public schools, civic groups and non-Mormon churches sponsoring scouts than Church of Latter Day Saints. It’s not even close. So to back up your statement, where is the proof of your claim because my first hand experience is entirely different from your assertion. And David, you are completely wrong that either the BSA or the chartering organization considers BSA leaders as any sort of “employee,” paid or otherwise. If you yourself ever participated in the annual rechartering process of a Pack or Troop or completed any of the mandatory adult leadership training, you would actually know this. Geez, I never cease to be amazed at the complete lack of knowledge spewed in the DTH on subjects that students seem to know nothing about.


UNC Alum
January 25, 2012 at 12:59 PM
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The editorial says the Triangle YMCA is the one that must change its “backwards policies.” You fail to understand the Golden Rule…he who has the gold, makes the rules. The Chapel Hill YMCA is the one with the bleak financial picture that desperately needs this merger, not the other way around. The party that needs a merger to stay afloat is hardly in any position to dictate the terms of a deal. The Triangle Y can walk away. The Chapel HIll Y is in no such position, based on what they sent to members lately.


Mystic
January 25, 2012 at 1:57 PM
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Given the YMCA’s past role in the homosexual community, I kind of confused why the Triangle Branch would allow the Boy Scouts of America to use their facility if they really represent such a threat to a Non-Discrimination Policy. I mean if the Triangle Branch does not feel its values are been thrown out the window by letting the BSA have a meeting there once a week, then I don’t see why Chapel Hill-Carrboro should feel any differently.

What’s more, why is no one getting angry about the Y Guides program, in which only Dads are allowed to act as chaperons for their son or daughter in the group. Why are mothers excluded? Isn’t that discrimination on the basis of gender as much as this case of discrimination on the basis of sexuality? Don’t the sons and daughters of single mothers feel excluded? I only raise these points to illustrate that the YMCA of the Triangle has remained consistent in its policies over the years such that if people really had a problem with them, then why only now are people getting angry.

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Finally, this editorial completely misses the target as their beef seems to be more with the policies of the Boy Scouts of America than the YMCA itself, which would be fine…if not for the fact this piece makes it clear on several occasions that the Board has no problem with the BSA itself and even supports it continuation at another location. In other words, the only real gripe they have is with the location itself, which I think is just petty in consideration of the Triangle YMCA being okay with the values of the BSA.


Shade
January 25, 2012 at 2:02 PM
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More liberal tripe for the small powers that be in Chapel Hill. I just wonder how the Y would respond if, say, a Muslim group that preached violent jihad and advocated hatred of others (Jews, for instance) would be treated under this policy. Forced to sever their relationship? I think not! This is all about political correctness run amok.


UNC Eagle Scout '67
January 25, 2012 at 5:40 PM
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UNC Alum- I have to agree with Otelia
check this out http://www.bsa-discrimination.org/html/lds-top.html
also the highly awarded documentry “Scout’s Honor”
http://www.newday.com/films/Scouts_Honor.html
As an Eagle Scout since 1961 I am appalled that Scouting bowed to economic pressures from
the LDS Church and it’s redifinition of“morally atraight”


Really...
January 25, 2012 at 10:44 PM
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This article is ridiculous. Why can’t someone own up to writing this piece? There’s clearly a lack of knowledge among the “Editorial Board.” It is evident that they failed to do their homework and actually present the other side of the story. Being an Eagle Scout, I have grown up in the Boy Scouts, been active in community service, and learned valuable lessons that are not taught elsewhere. The culture you mention in this article, from my experience, does not take place in the Boy Scouts and I think that it is irresponsible to assume that certain national policies are unanimously accepted in every charter, especially in such a “progressive” town. This article, simply put, is an embarrassment to the DTH and is entirely hypocritical.


UNC Alum
January 26, 2012 at 10:44 AM
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I will stand by my position that there is no takeover of the BSA by the Mormon church. As of Dec. 2010, the Mormon church chartered just under 38,000 scout organizations which held a total of 413,000 members. But there were 73,865 scout organizations chartered by everything from homeowners associations to Rotary to VFW to Buddhist temples and their membership exceeded 2.2 million. Not exactly a massive takover now, is it. And those numbers are just using the 25 largest religious and 20 largest non-religious charter groups. The actual number of scouts and units that are not affiliated with the Mormon church is higher.


UNC '14
January 30, 2012 at 6:50 AM
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I spent seven years in the Boy Scouts. The only problem was, I wasn’t technically allowed to be a member because I am an atheist. So yes, contrary to some people below, there is in fact a culture of exclusion and intolerance in the Boy Scouts that some people choose to ignore. Good for anyone who stands up and refuses to support this bigotry.

 
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