It was this same love that led him away.
Potorti arrived at UNC in 1999 to study folklore as a master's student. He was preparing to write a thesis on occupational folklore, focusing on the story of the UNC janitorial staff.
But he now finds his life focused on a different story, using lessons learned from his brother's death during the Sept. 11 attacks to help other people carve peaceful tomorrows out of today's violent climate.
As the co-director and eastern U.S. coordinator for Peaceful Tomorrows, a nonprofit group organized by family members of Sept. 11 victims, Potorti works to promote nonviolent responses to global terrorism.
Taking their name from a Martin Luther King Jr. quote, "Wars are poor chisels for carving out peaceful tomorrows," Potorti said the group wants to end the perpetual cycle of violence in the world.
Potorti made his initial return to New York after Thanksgiving. His first trip back to his former home and the site where his brother died was an emotional one. "I cried. ... You look up past the people living, and there is this massive wreckage," he said.
During the trip, a walk through Manhattan to honor the victims of Sept. 11 led Potorti to meet other family members who shared his view on the response to the attacks.
"We didn't want to extend the same harsh treatment our family members and others had received," Potorti said.
To reach this goal, Potorti and other members of Peaceful Tomorrows are working to communicate their message to President Bush. On Feb. 14, the group held a press conference in New York asking Bush to create an Afghan victim fund. Potorti and his colleagues mailed the president a valentine with the proposal attached.