Every member of Humala Aqrawee's family suffered under former President Saddam Hussein's regime in Iraq.
Her brother was killed in 1991, and her family was sent his arm and leg.
Her father was tortured and no longer has use of his hands.
Most recently, terrorists searching for Aqrawee mistakenly found and killed her sister instead. American media outlets even have reported Aqrawee as dead.
"When they killed my sister I didn't give up," she told more than 20 people during a speech Tuesday at UNC about the American occupation of Iraq and the efforts to build democracy.
"Three days after I learned, my family forced me out of the house and made me keep working. It was really hard, but I had to keep going. After September 11, America cannot give up. We need the support you are trying to extend."
The event was sponsored by the Foundation for the Defense of Democracies and co-sponsored by the UNC Young Democrats, UNC College Republicans and the Carolina Troop Supporters.
Aqrawee, who speaks English, French, Arabic, and two dialects of Kurdish, traveled with the 101st Airborne Division of the U.S. Army during the war in Iraq, translating between the troops and citizens of Iraq.
"I am here to speak for the Iraqi people and show you that we want the help of American troops in building democracy," she said. "Your media only shows what is negative and never shows that Iraqi people are supportive."