Amy Dunn, a former newspaper journalist turned stay-at-home parent, blogs regularly about living well on less at www.ourfrugaljourney.com.
College exam time is around the corner. That can only mean that it's time for the "guilt letters" to start arriving in the mailbox.
In fact, I got one last week. I'm paraphrasing here, but they all go something like this:
Exam time will be here before you know it. We know that as a loving and caring parent, you'd like to help your student get through this rough time. And we'll make it easy for you by sending your student a care packages filled with healthy snacks and convenience foods for the extremely low price of $XX.99. Blah, blah, blah.
Forgive me for not running to my wallet and whipping out the credit card. As the parent of one Carolina senior and a sophomore at Appalachian, I've gotten far too many versions of this letter over the last four years. A welcome to campus care package, Halloween care package, winter exams, spring exams, etc., etc.
There seems to be no end to the opportunities for which you can spend big bucks to send your kid a few bags of microwave popcorn, some mac-and-cheese packets and a bag of Skittles.
OK, so I'm exaggerating a bit here. They'll be happy to throw in a stress ball, an inspirational booklet and a juice pouch.
They always come in official-looking envelopes that make you think they come from the university. Since they have never lasted longer than 45 seconds in my house before they hit the trash can, I can't say for sure if they do or not.
What I do know is that someone is making some money on these things by playing on parental guilt. And that just kind of rubs me the wrong way.