More than 20 years ago, I read a study of junior high school students in Rhode Island that included one finding I’ve never been able to get out of my head.
Students were asked if a man who spent money on a woman during a date was entitled to force her into sexual activity. An astounding 25 percent of the young boys said yes. Even more astounding, 17 percent of the junior high school girls agreed.
You may think that sounds like a long time ago — and it was. But, sadly, dating violence remains a very real problem in our country — especially on college campuses.
Today, while in college, nearly one in five women will be a victim of sexual assault, and one in 10 teens will be hurt on purpose by someone they are dating.
These aren’t just statistics, these are people you know: your roommates, your friends, your sisters, your classmates. This is a problem we all have to face.
My dad used to say that there’s no worse sin than the abuse of power. Whether it was raising a hand to someone weaker, or using any advantage to push people around, he taught me that if you saw abuse, you had an obligation to attempt to stop it. It’s a lesson to remember every day, but especially this month, Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month.
Awareness is the first step to pushing back against a problem this big. When I held Senate hearings on violence against women more than two decades ago, domestic abuse in America was rarely spoken about in public. I’ll never forget the stories of abuse I heard in more than 1,000 hours of hearings. The brutality of family members, acquaintances and strangers against the women in their lives was devastating.
It was those hearings that led to the Violence Against Women Act, and since then annual incidents of domestic violence have dropped by more than 50 percent. But for women in college today, the risk is still much too high.
That’s why I joined with Education Secretary Arne Duncan last April to announce historic new guidelines for colleges about their responsibilities under Title IX to prevent sexual assault.